What Is Self-Pleasure? Recommended Products to Enhance Your Experience

What Is Self-Pleasure?

Self-pleasure, also known as "masturbation," involves touching sensitive areas on one’s body to experience pleasure. It is sometimes called "solo play" or "self-stimulation." While some may feel embarrassed about self-pleasure, caring for oneself in this way is nothing to be ashamed of.

Self-pleasure can offer various health and beauty benefits. Experiencing an orgasm stimulates the release of hormones like oxytocin and endorphins, which help reduce stress and promote relaxation. This can improve sleep, enhance blood circulation, and contribute to skin health—benefits that are especially appealing for women.

Compared to parts of the body like the face or legs, many have fewer opportunities to view or touch their genitals. Exploring your body through self-pleasure can help you feel a stronger sense of ownership over your body. Even if you have a partner, there’s no reason to feel guilty about engaging in self-pleasure. Knowing what feels good to you can make reaching orgasm easier. Sharing these preferences with your partner can lead to more satisfying sexual experiences together. This positive approach to understanding one’s body is why we often refer to it as "self-pleasure" instead of other terms.

Trying Out Self-Pleasure Products

It’s said that around 60% of women have experienced self-pleasure. Recently, perceptions about female self-pleasure have become more accepting. As a result, self-pleasure products now feature stylish and chic designs, making them as enjoyable to choose as cosmetics or clothing.

However, even if someone is interested in trying self-pleasure products, many may hesitate when it comes to actually purchasing one. Despite increased awareness, self-pleasure products are still relatively new for many, so this hesitation is understandable.

So, how many people actually use these products? According to an internet survey conducted by JEX and the Japan Family Planning Association, about 1 in 5 women in their 20s use products for self-pleasure. These products are available online, so if you’re interested, consider taking that first step.

Source: [JEX Japan Sex Survey 2020]

Recommended Products from Flora

Here are three beginner-friendly products to consider. Use this as a guide to help you select what might work best for you.

• Iroha Stick

The Iroha Stick is a pocket-sized vibrator that’s easy to carry. The standout feature is its chic appearance—it doesn’t look like a typical self-pleasure product. The concept behind the Iroha Stick is to treat self-pleasure as a normal part of life, just like putting on makeup. Designed to resemble a makeup tool, it’s discreet and elegant. The silicone tip feels smooth on the skin, and you can easily adjust from gentle to powerful vibrations. It’s an ideal option for those new to self-pleasure products.

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• LELO Enigma Dual Stimulation Sonic Massager

The Enigma is an advanced double-stimulation sonic massager that stimulates the entire clitoral area with sonic waves while massaging the G-spot with powerful vibrations. Developed by the luxury brand LELO, which offers a wide range of self-pleasure products, the Enigma stands out for its ability to stimulate both internally and externally, creating a double intensity experience. The ergonomically designed internal stimulator is crafted from premium silicone with a smooth texture.

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• Love Cosme Little Penguin Pink

The Little Penguin Pink is a rechargeable suction rotor with an adorable penguin motif, making it both fun and approachable. Its compact body fits comfortably in a woman’s hand, and the suction angle is designed for easy use on the clitoris. This cute, functional product is ideal for those new to suction devices.

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Conclusion

Did any of these products catch your attention? For those who have never tried self-pleasure products before, why not take this opportunity to explore new experiences?